Suggestions for Bikini Hair Removal?

I've shaved, and get ingrown hairs like CRAZY, accompanied by razor burn type bumps! Exfoliating doesn't help. Same thing happens with depilitory creams (Nair, Veet, etc.). When I wax, I bleed out of the pores/follicles, and often bruise... I've even tried Laser Hair Removal with no results... Do any of you have issues with bleeding through the skin as well? Do you have any suggestions as to get a smooth, hair-free bikini area?